Well, we did it. Finally. We had been told by my super cautious RE not to "do it" until the end of the first trimester. Then my OB said it was ok to do it but to be gentle and watch for spotting. So, I was a bit nervous that it would cause spotting. Also I started realizing that 12 weeks isn't exactly 3 months so maybe we should wait until 13 weeks and then I realized that I turning something wonderful into something horrible. So this week at 13 weeks and 5 days we finally did it. And we were careful and it was awesome. I seriously feel sooooo much closer to hubs when we are happily doing it regularily! Things were getting pretty lame around here with zero action for 3 months! He was instantly in a super mood, and so was I! I read online that orgasms can cause contractions so I told myself I wasn't going to let myself go there. But of course, hubby knows how to push all of the right buttons and before I knew it it was too late! Amazing.
Now, the bad part is yesterday I had a dot of pink when I wiped. Hmmmm....freak out!
It was only one dot and it has not returned so for now I'm relieved but needless to say our plans for a hot sunday evening rendevous went quickly out the window.
So for now I'm happy that I know I still know how to do it! And that it still feels great! But I don't think I'm going to be any less nervous next time. Why is this so hard!!!!??? Ugh.
One thing I really do miss is carefree fun sex with my husband.
Anyways, i'm off to the gym since I have gotten my energy back! Have a great afternoon ladies!
LTB
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Hehe! I am glad you two finally got to enjoy yourselves. :) I hope it was the start of an awesome week. Enjoy your afternoon at the gym!
ReplyDeletehaha....This post cracked me up. I have to tell ya, that my DH and I did it yesterday too...but were pretty cautious. It had been about 2 months for us. It made me nervous, but all was fine!
ReplyDeleteoh man, I am DYING to get back to sexing. We didn't get any orders not to, but we're just too freaked out to do it.
ReplyDeleteAw - I'm glad you were able to "do it" with the hubs and enjoyed it. It really does bring you closer & put you in a great mood afterward. I hope you feel free to continue as well. Sometimes I spot after sex and I'm not even pregnant so it could be "normal" and nothing to worry about. I know - easier said than done!
ReplyDeletehehe - that first time back is always AWESOME isn't it?! Glad you guys are enjoying yourselves :-)
ReplyDeleteahhh, it's the little things in life that can bring a smile back to our faces :o) glad that you and dh got back on track in the bedroom!!
ReplyDeleteWoo Hoo!!! I am so happy you two had some "special" time. You deserve it!!
ReplyDeleteI love your honesty.:) Our RE had us on the same thing and now I'm paranoid that when our OB does give us the ok I'll still be panicky.
ReplyDeleteWahooooo!!!
ReplyDeleteCarefree sex with your husband??? what is that concept? :O) I think that was something I had over 4 years ago...it is vague but I think it was fun.
ReplyDeleteSo glad everything is good still and your baby is continuing to grow!