Well, we did it. Finally. We had been told by my super cautious RE not to "do it" until the end of the first trimester. Then my OB said it was ok to do it but to be gentle and watch for spotting. So, I was a bit nervous that it would cause spotting. Also I started realizing that 12 weeks isn't exactly 3 months so maybe we should wait until 13 weeks and then I realized that I turning something wonderful into something horrible. So this week at 13 weeks and 5 days we finally did it. And we were careful and it was awesome. I seriously feel sooooo much closer to hubs when we are happily doing it regularily! Things were getting pretty lame around here with zero action for 3 months! He was instantly in a super mood, and so was I! I read online that orgasms can cause contractions so I told myself I wasn't going to let myself go there. But of course, hubby knows how to push all of the right buttons and before I knew it it was too late! Amazing.
Now, the bad part is yesterday I had a dot of pink when I wiped. Hmmmm....freak out!
It was only one dot and it has not returned so for now I'm relieved but needless to say our plans for a hot sunday evening rendevous went quickly out the window.
So for now I'm happy that I know I still know how to do it! And that it still feels great! But I don't think I'm going to be any less nervous next time. Why is this so hard!!!!??? Ugh.
One thing I really do miss is carefree fun sex with my husband.
Anyways, i'm off to the gym since I have gotten my energy back! Have a great afternoon ladies!
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